Hello! I know, it’s been a long time. Life is messy. It never goes the way you expect, and it seems to be less and less predictable the longer you’re here. If you had told me 2 years ago that things would be like they are today, I wouldn’t have believed you. Am I back?... Continue Reading →
Switching, Dominance, and submission, for me.
Switching can be about a partnership, or about power play. What does it mean to be a switch? Some sects of BDSM would argue the being a switch means you aren’t a “real” dominant or a “real” submissive. However, in the same breath, many of those same people will tell you that the best dominant... Continue Reading →
The Mandatory “How I Got Here” Post
This is a question I’ve been mulling over the last 8 months or so. I don’t mean “who am I?” as in the movie trope where some tragic accident has made me forget my actual identity. I mean, from an introspective, intentional way – who am I? In October last year, I woke up to... Continue Reading →